ATTACHMENT THEORY AND PREVIOUS STUDIES
Attachment theory provides a framework within which to articulate romantic relationships among humans and understand how attachment with canine companions can affect this relationship (Fraley and Shaver,
2000; Beck and Madresh,
2008; Cloutier and Peetz,
2016; Meehan
et al.,
2017; Applebaum
et al.,
2021). Based on her studies, Ainsworth (
1991) maintained that attachment behaviors occur over a lifespan, as individuals develop multiple subsequent attachments based on their earlier attachments between parents and children. Dominant features in this relationship involve the parent as a caregiving source of security and the child needing protection and nurturance. Carnelley
et al. (
1996) support the notion that attachment and caregiving are central components of adult romantic love. As originally formulated, attachment theory maintains that early needs and expectations learned in early caregiver relationships shape the expectations that individuals have in their adult romantic relationships (Ainsworth,
1991; Fraley and Shaver,
2000). Fraley and Shaver (
2000, p. 136) state that “as people build new relationships, they rely partly on previous expectations about how others are likely to behave and feel toward them, and they use these models to interpret goals or intentions of their partners.”
Attachment theory has also been used to study human-animal relationships because companion animals are a source of social support and represent attachment figures for their human caregivers (Archer,
1997; Beck and Madresh,
2008; Meehan
et al.,
2017; Applebaum
et al.,
2021). According to Applebaum
et al. (
2021), attachment theory emphasizes the development of social bonds among humans which can also occur between humans and animals. They assert that animals “… provide their human companions with a sense of social support that mirrors that of attachment bonds with other people yet offer unique characteristics that diverge from the complex dynamics of human interactions” (
2021, p. 2). These unique characteristics include that companion animals “are often perceived by humans as being a reliable, nonjudgmental source of companionship and support, especially in the context of stressful situations or adversity” (
2021, p. 2). They also maintain that certain forms of stress resulting from experiences with violence in a relationship or community, poverty and discrimination are more often experienced by racial-ethnic minorities and women, and may result in differences in how they bond with their animals.
Early studies have shown that animals can substitute for children, parents, or partners (Serpell,
1986,
1987; Albert and Bulcroft,
1987). With regard to companion animals, humans have demonstrated both proximity-seeking and maintenance, separation distress in their relationships, and regard their animals as offering dependable and unconditional emotional support (Meehan
et al.,
2017). Cavanaugh
et al. (
2008) assert that dogs’ trusting, empathic, and non-judgmental nature, specifically their agreeableness and openness, allows them to blend easily within human social groupings. These researchers suggest that humans living with dogs may include them in their human groups, possibly to foster these traits in themselves as they navigate their relationships with other humans.
Previous research on how living with dogs affects romantic relationships has shown that dogs facilitate couples’ interactions and that couples benefit from the social support they provide and the role they play (Allen,
1995; Beck and Madresh,
2008; McConnell
et al.,
2011; Cloutier and Peetz,
2016; Meehan
et al.,
2017). In their sample of 1161 college students, Meehan
et al. (
2017) found that the respondents saw their companion animals as important sources of social support similar to those they had with significant other humans. In a related study, Meehan
et al. (
2017) also found that students reporting high attachment to their animals indicated that their companion animals were an additional source of instrumental and emotional support and that their animals were potentially primary attachment figures for them.
In an earlier investigation, Beck and Madresh (
2008) found that their respondents reported that their relationships with their companion animals were more secure than their relationships with romantic partners because their animals functioned as a source of attachment security. The researchers speculated that respondents’ companion animals may buffer the negative aspects of their relationships with human partners. Generally, most respondents recognized that their relationships with their companion animals and their relationships with their human partners were similar, but not the same; some respondents also compared their relationships with their animals with their human relationships. For example, one respondent said that she thought that the couple’s dog loved her boyfriend better than her since the dog obeyed him more. The respondents noted that their animals were not a substitute for human relationships, but that their presence allowed humans to tolerate more insecurity in their relationships with other humans, including romantic partners.
Most recently, Cloutier and Peetz (
2016) examined how having companion animals affects romantic relationships, defining a relationship as “an enduring romantic partnership between two persons” and conceptualizing relationship quality as including factors such as “satisfaction, commitment, intimacy, trust, passion and love” (p. 396). The researchers noted that having companion animals can influence relationship quality in several ways, such as investment that fosters further commitment and relationship longevity, as well as providing opportunities for couples to share activities such as caretaking tasks and taking walks with their dog(s). They found that couples with companion animals reported significantly greater relationship quality than those who did not. Romantic partners were asked about how their animals influenced their romantic relationships. Qualitative responses were coded into positive (192), neutral (18), and negative (10) effects. In their sample of 116 pet owners, 86% indicated that their animals had a positive impact on their romantic relationships most of the time; 8% reported a neutral effect; and 5% reported negative effects. Positive effects included increases in relationship quality, relationship closeness, shared activities, and familial feelings. Cloutier and Peetz (
2016) concluded that interactions with companion animals provided romantic partners with the opportunity to practice empathy and concern-key factors in maintaining their romantic relationships.
In an earlier study, Allen (
1995) found that couples living with dogs reported greater well-being, especially among those who reported being highly attached to their dogs and who stated that they confided in their dogs. Talking to their dogs was also associated with stress reduction and greater perceived emotional and physical health, along with higher marital and life satisfaction. In their review of previous research, McConnell
et al. (
2011) reported an AP poll finding that married or cohabitating couples claimed that their companion animal was a “better listener” than their spouse. In their own study, McConnell
et al. (
2011) found that respondents who lived with dogs reported getting similar support from them as they did from family members. As in the study by Beck and Madresh (
2008), these dog cohabitants acknowledged that their dogs were not a substitute for the social needs met by humans; however, they noted the unique role that dogs contributed in facilitating the relationships humans had with each other.
Based on previous research by Allen and Blascovich (
1996), Walsh (
2009, p. 485) noted that companion animals serve as “emotional barometers and homeostatic regulators moderating stress in relationships.” In a review of the previous literature, Walsh (
2009) concluded that companion animals are absorbed into one’s family or a couple’s dynamics so that they may be highly sensitive to the emotional climate humans create and to the affective states of individuals.
Allen (
1995) further commented that having animals is like having children, since caring for both involves structure and roles, clear and effective communication, authority, rules, setting boundaries, cooperation, conflict, and problem solving. Couples’ disagreements over rearing children also arise over companion animals in terms of rules (giving treats or not), discipline (put in crate or not), or caretaking (feeding, cleaning up, taking for walks). Moreover, when animals “are treated as family members, feelings, anger, control, guilt, and fear can all play out through them” often appearing to show “jealousy when partners or family members are hugging or kissing” (Walsh,
2009, p. 486).
In summary, dogs need caregiving which provides a measure of attachment security for romantic partners (Archer,
1997; Beck and Madresh,
2008) and an opportunity to practice empathy (Cloutier and Peetz,
2016). While some studies on the impact of dogs on romantic relationships have been conducted, more research is needed to examine the burdens along with the benefits that living with dogs has on romantic relationships among young college-age couples (Cavanaugh
et al.,
2008), particularly during crises such as COVID. Furthermore, the assertion in previous literature that the life experiences of women and members of different racial-ethnic groups may lead to differences in how they bond with animals (Applebaum
et al.,
2021) suggests further inquiry into gender and racial-ethnic differences regarding dogs’ impact on romantic relationships. Therefore, the present study examined the extent to which living with one or more dogs either enhances or detracts from young college-age cohabitating couples’ romantic relationships and any possible gendered and racial-ethnic differences in these perceptions.